Friday, June 5, 2009

Career conflict case

Swapnalu, 17 bacharer ekti chele. Ebar taar ISC result beriyeche. Se swapna dekhto computer engineer hobe.

Exam result dekhe o abak hoye geche. Sc. subject er tulanay Arts subject e more than 85 score kareche. Computer Sc. e or score holo more than 75.
Anya sc. subject e score kareche around 50. Maths e 43.

O sampurna dwidhagrasta. Ekhon ki bhabe o computer engineer hobe ? Maths e bhalo score na thakle to B.Sc ba BCA para jabe na.

O ki tabe english niye parbe ? English e or score 88. Kintu English niye para mane arts. Tabe ki or jibone aar sc. para holo na ?

Ei sab niye kadin ghum nei, sarata samay toilet e katachche, athaba ghar bondho kare rekheche.

Ebar bolun Swapnalu ke apnara ki gaan shonaben ? Taar sathe jadi kono suggestion thake tabe Swapnalu ke aro beshi help kara hobe.

Gaan:

Subhonkar
Ja peyechhi pratham dine sei jeno pai sheshe,
Du haat diye bishwere chhui shishur moto hese.
Jabar bela sahajere
Jai jeno mor pronam sere,
Sakal pantha jethaye mele setha darai ese.
Khujte jaare hoy na kothao chokh jeno taye dekhe,
Sadai je roy kachhe tari parash jeno theke.
Nitya jahar thaki kole
Tarei jeno jai go bole----
Ei jibone dhanya holem tomaye bhalobese.


Amanita:
Bahir jodi holi pothe phirish ne ar konomote
Theke theke pichhon-paane chash ne baare baare.
Nei je re bhoy tribhubone, bhoy shudhu tor nijer mone
Abhaycharan shmoron kore bahir hoye jaa re.

Manic

Baba adar kare naam rekhechilo Abhilash. Baba holen khoob uchchakankhi. Saradin tension karen cheler lekha para niye. Tar janye Abhilash ke prachur katha shunte hoyeche, choto belay khoob mar o kheyeche. Ekhon aar maar khay na. Se baro badhya chele babar. O kichudin age joint entrance diyeche. Monday/Tuesday te Joint er result berobe bole TV te jeneche.

Khabar ta janajani haoar par kayekta durghatana ghate gelo barite. Baba rasta cross karte giye auto te ekta dhakka kheyechen. Haater kanui te khoob byatha.

Chill tray khulte giye daal er baro bati pare gelo maaer paye. Bhagyis, thanda chilo bati ta, na hole byatha ta bere jeto. Abhilash arnica 200 diyeche ma ke, aar volini lagiye diyeche. Pain ta ektu kam.

Abhilasher chokhe ghum nei. Aajgubi chinta matahy ghurche. Aaj theke or jwar shuru hoyeche. kayekdin brishti holeo thanda lagay ni. Kayekdin dhare baire beroy ni. Barang date jato egiye asche, tatoi or mejaj tao kharap hoye jachche, baire berono bandho. Bondhuder phone gulo tulche na.

Gaan

Bimochan:
Nibiro ghano aNdhare jwaliche drubotara .
monore mor pathare hosne dishehara
bishade hoye mriyoman
bandho na koriyo gaan
sapholo kori tolo pran
tutia moho kara

Krishna:
sukh-heen nishidin poradhin hoye bhromicho dinoprane
sototo hay bhabna shoto shoto, niyoto bhito pirito.....
shir noto koto opomane...
jano na re odho-urdhe bahir-ontore
gheri tore nityo raje sei obhoy-ashroy
tolo anoto shir, tyajo re bhoybhar,
sototo sorolchite chaho tari premmukhopaane

DDR
Ei gaan tao besh bhalo. Exam. result kharap hole ei gaaner katha gulo ke use kara jete pare. Kayekdin pare besh kichu main exam. er result berobe. Takhan ei gaan er katha gulo mone rakhar mato.

sukh-heen nishidin poradhin hoye bhromicho dinoprane
sototo hay bhabna shoto shoto, niyoto bhito pirito.....
shir noto koto opomane...
jano na re odho-urdhe bahir-ontore
gheri tore nityo raje sei obhoy-ashroy
tolo anoto shir, tyajo re bhoybhar,

Abhilash er family ke:

Bimochan:
APON HOTR BAHIR HOYE BAIRE DAnRA,
BUKER MAJHE BISWALOKER PBI SARA

SESH DUTI LINE DUTI R O SUNDAR

JEKHANTE AGADH CHUTI, MAL SETHA TOR DANA DUTI,
SABAR MAJHE PABI CHARA

Mausumi
a(n)dhar thakuk dike dike akash andha kora
tomar parash thakuk amar hriday bhora.......

ar ekakityer gan bollei amar mone pore ei duti line--
amare je jagte hobe ki jani se asbe kobe
jodi amay jodi amay pore tahar mone.........

Mausumi
apni abash holi, tobe bol dibi tui kare
uthe dara uthe dara bhenge poris na re
koris ne laaj koris ne bhoy apnake tui kore ne joy
sobai tokhon sara debe dak dibi tui jare
bahir jodi holi pothe phiris ne ar konomote
theke theke pichhan pane chas ne bare bare
nei je re bhoy tribhubane bhoy sudhu tor nijer mone
abhoycharan shmaran kore bahir hoye ja re.....
sototo sorolchite chaho tari premmukhopaane

Tomar ei gaan ta besh sundar. Gaan ta nishchoyi Abhilasher baba, ma o Abhilasher mone ekta insight jagate parbe.

Amar ei gaan ta mone parchilo. Eta amar priyo gaan.

"Ore, nutan juger bhore
Dis ne samay katiye britha samay bichar kare.
Ki robe aar ki robe na, ki hobe aar ki hobe na ore hisabi
e sanshayer mahje ki tor bhabna mishabi?

Jemon kare jharna name durgam parbate
nirbhabanay jhanp diye par ajaniter pathe.
jagbe jatoi shakti tatoi hanbe tore mana
ajanake bosh kare tui karbi apan jana
chalay chalay bajbe joer bheri
payer kone path kete jay karis ne aar deri"


Bolo, ei gaan ta ki appropriate hobe ?

Ekakitya, smriti o Rabindrasangeet
@ Mausumi r prashner uttar

Nishchoy pare jadi sei gaantar madhye emon kono meaning thake jeta chotobelar kono ekakitya katate help karechilo.

Rabindranath to nijei bole gechen.

"Sedin dujane dulechinu bone, phuldore bandha jhulana
sei smritituku kabhu khane khane jeno jage mone, bhulo na."

Amar khoob chotobelar smriti te ei gaan ta chilo, ekakitya thakle ei gaan ta amar mone pare.

"Ore, nutan juger bhore
Dis ne samay katiye britha samay bichar kare.
Ki robe aar ki robe na, ki hobe aar ki hobe na ore hisabi
e sanshayer mahje ki tor bhabna mishabi?

Jemon kare jharna name durgam parbate
nirbhabanay jhanp diye par ajaniter pathe.
jagbe jatoi shakti tatoi hanbe tore mana
ajanake bosh kare tui karbi apan jana
chalay chalay bajbe joer bheri
payer kone path kete jay karis ne aar deri"


Mausumi, tomar ki emon kono gaan mone pare ?

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Krishna:

Abhilash er babake ei ganti shunale ki kono upokaar hobe?

tomar osheeme pranmon loye joto dure ami dhai...
kothao dukhho, kothao mrityu ,kotha bichhed nai..
mrityu se dhore mrityur roop, dukhho hoy he dukhher kup,
toma hote jobe hoiye bimukh aponar pane chai..
he purno tobo choroner kache jaha-kichu sob ache ache ache...
nai nai bhoy, se shudhu amari, nishidin knadi tai...
ontorglani songsaarbhar polok phelite kotha ekakaar
jiboner majhe sworup tomar rakhibare jodi pai...

Loneliness

Rani hatat kare ekta aboran tairi kare niyeche tar upar. Ebong sei aboran er madhye thakle oke jemon keu bujhte parche na (prathame tatei or ananda asto) temon o ekta ekakitwar jwalay kasto pachche (jeta pare sristi holo). Ekakitwa theke or madhye ekta bhoy tairi hochche.

Ager lekhay aboran ebong bhoy niye gaan lekha hoyeche.


Jadi ei context e ekakitwa niye tomra kichu insight dao tabe bhalo hoy.

ekakityer jontrona bholar context e ei gaantir kotha mone holo...


Gaan

Krishna:
noyon tomare pay na dekhite, royecho noyone noyone
hridoy tomare pay na janite, hridoye royecho gopone...
basonar boshe mon obiroto dhay dosh dishe pagoler moto,
sthir ankhi tumi morome sototo jagicho soyone swopone...
sobai chereche, nai jar keho, tumi acho taar ache tobo sneho...
nirashroy jon, poth jar geho, seo ache tobo bhobone..
tumi chara keho sathi nai aar, somukhe ononto jibonbistaar
kaalparabaar koritecho paar keho nahi jane komone...
jani sudhu tumi acho tai achi, tumi pranomoy tai ami bnachi...
joto pai tomay aro toto jachi, joto jani toto jani ne..
jani ami tomay pabo nirontor loklokantore jugjugantor..
tumi aar ami majhe keho nai, kono badha nai bhubone......

Anxiety

Case 1:

Rani, boyes holo 20 bachar, lekha paray bhalo, hatat kare taar madhye kichu clinical symptom dekha gelo. Jemon anek raat dhare TV dekha karon ghum asche na. Abar khoob bela kare otha karon beshi rate ghumano. Sab samay ekta bhoy jeno tara kare berachche. Or sab samay mone hochhe je or pashe keu nei. O jeno eka, ekai oke chalte hobe.

Gaan:
1] aponare diye rochili re ki e apnari aboron!
khule dekh dwar, ontore taar anondoniketon...
mukti ajike nai kono dhare, akash seo je badhe karagare,
bishnishwase tai bhore ase nirudhho someeron...
thele de araal; ghuchibe andhar... aponare phel dure...
sohoje tokhoni jibon tomar omrite uthibe pure...
shunyo koriya rakh tor bnashi, bajabar jini bajaben asi...
bhikhha na nibi, tokhon janibi bhora ache tor dhon...



2] onek diner shunyota mor bhorte hobe
mounobeenar tontro amar jagao sudharobe..
bosontosomeere tomar phul-photano banee
dik porane ani...
dako tomar nikhil utsobe..
milonshotodole..
tomar premer orupmurti dekhao bhubontole..
sobar sathe milao amay, bhulao ohonkaar,
khulao rudhhodwar
purno koro pronotigourobe...

3] peyechi sondhan tobo ontorjami, ontore dekhechi tomare..
chokite chopol aloke, hridoy shotodolmajhe,
herinu eki oporup roop..
kotha phiritechilam pothe pothe dware dware
matiya kolorobe...
sohosha kolaholmajhe sunechi tobo ahoban,
nibhrito hridoymajhe
modhur gobhir shanto banee..

4. Apon hote bahir hoye baire dnara
Buker majhe biswaloker pabi shara
Ei je bipul dheu legechhe
Tor majhete uthuk neche, neche..
Sakal poran dik na nara,baire dnara.

Keno ei blog ?

Ei blog er idea ta ase orkut e Rabindrasangeet er application in psychological counseling theke. Ei thread ta holo:

http://www.orkut.co.in/Main#CommMsgs.aspx?cmm=81632709&tid=5335177902399439952&start=1